Sari Alexandra Becker, on 23 November 2011 - 03:16 PM, said:
Hmmm... interesting John, thanx.
I can launch, I can land, I can turn and correct my kite when its heading in a direction I hadn't planned on it heading...
but I cannot, for the life of me, get the damned thing to hover!!! 
That certainly sounds like not enough brake. You might try moving out a few knots on your upper handle pigtails.
Exactly how you hold the handles is less important than the relative lengths (IN THE POSITION YOU HOLD THEM) of the lines.
A great many people favor the first exercise of setting up with the kite on the LE (Leading Edge), and pulling in on the lower (brake) lines until the kite just barely lifts off the ground, and then letting the lower lines out immediately to land the kite back on the LE. Never letting the kite rise more than a foot off the ground, repeat this, gradually holding in the air longer and longer until you have control of the Inverted Hover. This gets your hands (it's a motor skill, not a mental skill) used to making the tiny adjustments required to hold the kite steady in position. Dozens, even hundreds, of repetitions are needed to train the muscles to respond correctly. This sounds like a lot, but at the rate of one lift-off and landing every few seconds (increasing to several seconds), you can get a lot of reps done in a very short time.
Another concept (this is my own - NOT widely used in teaching) is to firmly drill yourself on the idea that one kind of differential (difference in angle of the handles) makes the kite turn CLOCKWISE (not to the right) and the other kind turns the kite COUNTER-CLOCKWISE (not to the left). Right and left of the kite change depending on which way is up. Clockwise and counter-clockwise are always the same.