If you don't have someone to teach you, try purchasing the DVD" Freestyle Pilot". It isa very helpfull ,from doing basic things like launching and landing to some advanced stuff. You should be able to get it at any kite store. I think it runs about $19.99. It's well worth it. Also, I think that once you can control the kite, you will find that lighter winds will be better to learn in. Gives you more time to respond with the slower movement of the kite.. HAVE FUN !
Steve