I would fly everyday if life didn't raise it's ugly head now and then!! I even fly inside, if the winds or weather aren't co-operating!!
There is no substitute for "time on the lines", practice, practice, and more practice! Push for specific short term goals and once met - set new ones! And make those goals reachable, not pie in the sky stuff, but something you can attain with some work at it! After a while, the skills just keep piling up and you find it easier to do stuff that was impossible before!
I do consider myself extreme, but without the positive influence that kiting has offered me, I'd still be on my couch, watching TV, waiting for .....? Give me kiting everyday!!